I attended a wedding last weekend and wanted to say something along the following lines:
"In the first year you will probably find there are many things that you don't agree on".
I couldn't think of what to use for the "things that you don't agree on". I want to find a word or words that mean don't agree, I don't want something that means argumentative, I am looking for something that is more neutral that means they don't agree.
I'm thinking maybe something like 想法是不一样. Do you have any better suggestions?