I know that the intensity for the Chinese "but" is 不过》可是》但是》却 and I know that there are other words like this, but I wonder if there is a way to recognise which one has the stronger meaning, without having to memorise it.
Just to clarify, I already know about the "but" words in Chinese. I'm looking for a general rule that applies to words that have the same meaning, but a different intensity/strength.
Who told you there is an intensity difference there?
你觉得它们不一样，不过我不这么认为。
你觉得它们不一样，可是我不这么认为。
你觉得它们不一样，但是我不这么认为。
你觉得它们不一样，然而我不这么认为。
你觉得它们不一样，而我却不这么认为。
They sound absolutely the same to my ears. You use different words only because you want it to sound slightly more colorful.
Update: I might be wrong. See discussions in the comments.
Anyway it is easy to remember:
See? The intensity goes up with the strokes.
却 is a different beast and shouldn't be compared with these three.
In my opinion, the biggest difference between these words is the context. We only use 却 in writing but we will never say 却 in a conversation. Meanwhile, we use 不过 more often than not in speaking.
I suppose 不过》可是》但是》却 sorts by the context. There is no difference of intensity between them.They are unlike "although" and "but" in English.
I'm really not good at English and it is my first time to visit the website. I don't know if you get my point. You can reply me whenever you get confused.
