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I saw some people wrote the following sentence.
今天你想我了没 ？
I thought the question would be: Today, do you miss me or not? I am just a very beginner. But for the same meaning I would ask as following.
你今天想不想我吗？
So, is 今天你想我了没? a correct sentence/question? How about my question, is it correct or not?
今天你想我了没？ Did you miss me today? or have you miss me today? "or not" is unnecessary. This sentence is quite poetic.
你今天想不想我吗？ This is not a good sentence, "想不想" means "do you want to", so it does not fit the question well. Let's say "你今天想我了吗?" or "你今天想我不?". But as a general question without a specific date, you can ask "你想不想我?" or simply "你想我吗？"
今天你想我了没 ？ is correct. Your sentence works without 吗, like 你今天想不想我？.
verb+了没 is kinda pattern we can use most of time. E.g. 说了没, 发了没, 想了没, etc. 了 can be omitted like 说没, 发没, 想没.
