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With traditional Chinese characters it is correct and proper to address a female as “妳”.
If I have a simple question, I think it's clear I should use the female form.
妳最近好嗎？
But to say "hello", “你好” feels more like a set phrase.
So my question is simple,
Should I write
妳好
when addressing a female?
Or just use the gender-neutral
你好
Yes you can definitely use “妳好“ when addressing female.
However notice that in Chinese there isn't a strict usage defined to differentiate addressing male and female. If you use "你" instead, the reader will not (and probably should not) assume a male is addressed in the context.
In other word, "你好" is perfectly fine to address female without any grammatical concern.
「妳」 was originated from 「奶」or「嬭」.
In modern Chinese, we don't have a specific rule for using 「妳」 as a second person pronoun. Note that there is strict rules for using 她／他 for HE/SHE in Chinese.
In document or official letters, my suggestion is to stick with "你好".
However, in literature or any other informal situation, you can pick either "你好" or "妳好", whenever it fits your context.
For example a poem by Rabindranath Tagore, the Chinese translator uses 「妳」 in the translation "I love you".
我的心湧起千層情濤，衝向世界的岸邊；我要用淚水的語言，題上她的簽名：『我愛妳。』
This question is easily answered by a look at any Chinese grammar or dictionary,e.g. Yip Po-Ching and Don Rimmington's Chinese a Comprehensive grammar, 外国人实用汉语语法， A Practical Chinese Grammar for Foreigners 实用现代汉语语法（增订本）（２００１年 北京）only have 你／您 in their lists of personal pronouns. 另外有不少每天都看中文阅读材料的网民阅读本问题头一次和这虚构汉字见了面。在这方面繁和简体之间没有区别。It seems the question has been exhaustively answered before:
How widespread is the use of 妳? widespread is the use of 妳?
As is well known 她 was first used by Liu Bannong in 1920 (1920年9月4日) and thereafter gradually gained general acceptance. What is the history of 妳 though?. A fairly long article in traditional characters about Liu Bannong http://www.zwbk.org/MyLemmaShow.aspx?zh=zh-tw&lid=129512 contains 她 ７ times, but makes no reference to 妳. 請問「妳」與「她」的由來及歷史？https://tw.knowledge.yahoo.com/question/question?qid=1012062907110 says 是民國初年文學界有鴛鴦蝴蝶派用白話寫散文新詩 but zh.wikipedia's article on 鴛鴦蝴蝶派 contains no reference to 妳.
Should I say “妳好“ when addressing a female?
both "you" has the same pronunciation
Should one write “妳好" when addressing a female?
both the male and female forms of "you" works, and you can use 您 as a more polite form of "you"
Plz don't do that in formal context."妳” is deprecated in mainland China. It is originally a good word,but some "非主流” use it with other "火星文" to make it imply bad feelings.
