住起在 and 住在起 are both ungrammatical. It is either 住起来(upon living) or 住在(live in). You can write "住在这个房子讓我很不舒服" - " living in this house make me uncomfortable" But you cannot add 起来 to it
起来 = upon
[Verb + 起来] = [upon + verb] -- e.g. 住起在住起来 (upon living)
[Verb + 起来 + adj = [seem/feel + adj + upon + verb] -- e.g. 住起来不舒服 (feel uncomfortable upon living in it)
他看起来很友好 = seem friendly, upon looking at him = he seems friendly when looking at him
你的头发闻起来很香 = seem to smell nice upon smelling your hair = your hair smells nice when smelling it
你的床摸起来很舒服 = feel comfortable upon touching your bed = your bed feel comfortable when touching it